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Romans 12:2 — The Moment You Refuse to Conform, Everything Changes

4 min readApr 2, 2026

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Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

We love quoting that verse.

But the second someone actually lives it…
now it’s a problem.

Why This Hit Me So Hard

This isn’t just another sports story to me.

This hit something deep.

Because as a teenager, I was physically assaulted by adults — teachers — people who were supposed to guide me, protect me, lead me.

Instead, they crossed lines.

So when I see young athletes navigating systems where adults, institutions, and authority figures set the tone…

I pay attention differently.

Now I’ve got a nephew coming up — a teenage basketball player.

And I’m watching closely.

Because I know how fast the environment around you can shape who you become… or try to break you.

Who Jaden Ivey Actually Is (And Why That Matters)

Let’s stop being vague.

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Aswand Cruickshank
Aswand Cruickshank

Written by Aswand Cruickshank

A six time published author, who teaches business owners how implement innovative teamwork.