What Makes Good Pegging an “Art”?

Yes, I call my Webinars, “The Art of Pegging for Beginners, The Art of Pegging Equipment, and The Art of Pegging Advanced”.

Why do I use the word ‘Art’?

First Off, There’s a Lot to it

There are many parts to Pegging. Numerous factors converge, and result in a sexual activity that, for many, is quite complex. Exploring those factors can be a rather involved adventure.

Role Reversal

The role reversal aspect of pegging is often a source of much confusion, awkwardness and steep learning curves. Imagine being excellent at couples dancing, and then all of a sudden you switch roles as leader and follower. Bringing role reversal into your sexual relationship can open you up to radical new experiences and possibilities. It can also feel foreign and strange.

The Stuff That’s Already in Your Head

Combine that with whatever societal conditioning you may have around masculinity or rigid gender roles and there can be surprising, and potentially uncomfortable, emotional experiences as well. Yes, it’s okay for receivers to open up and be vulnerable. Yes, it’s okay for givers to take control and run the fuck. After a lifetime of conditioning about how sex is ‘supposed’ to be, this can be tricky…