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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Watch Your Thoughts…

It’s harder than you think

3 min readNov 1, 2026

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Often attributed to Lao Tzu:

“Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”

I thought I was good at this. I was wrong.

Thoughts on aging

Thinking positively about aging helps our quality of life. It may help our longevity too. I am part of the positive aging movement. We work to manage our internal ageism and to find the good in each decade.

Then I hit a wall this summer. Plantar fasciitis stopped me in my tracks. I had never felt pain like it. I am an avid hiker, and it came at the worst time. Summer is prime season on Mount Hood, just outside Portland.

Some days I struggled to walk one block, never mind one mile. I did my exercises. I added distance bit by bit. In August, I made it back to the mountain.

It was only five miles. It felt wonderful. I was back in my forest with the mountain view.

The ambush of ageism

As I began my return to the trailhead, I found myself limping and hoped it would not get worse. After all, I was…

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Ardith Bowman, Ph.D.
Ardith Bowman, Ph.D.

Written by Ardith Bowman, Ph.D.

I help women over 60 move past the old story of “retirement” and live the life they’re inspired to live now. Your first step is my gift: becomingyouafter60.com

Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.