5 Best Advice Given By My Father
My father is my role model, an experienced school teacher in mathematics. He imparted not only academic knowledge but also practical knowledge to the students.
He also gave me a lot of advice, which I always try to follow. I will share five favorite tips from him.
1.
Dad used to say; when time passes, there will be no pursuit. If you want to live in peace in old age, you have to succeed in your youth. After 40, when your vital force decreases, you will not be able to concentrate on any work.
He used to give examples, and if you have teeth, you can eat meat with bones. But if you don’t have teeth, it is challenging to eat minced meat. Without teeth, the gums do not have strength, so even soft cotton seems like an iron rod.
So you have to focus on work before the age of 30 because young people at this age can take on the physical and mental load.
This is the right time to work, and if you continue to work at this time, you remember that you will suffer a lot in adulthood. Maybe it’s financial or emotional. So get to work now, try to build your future savings.
2.
You will not share with anyone exactly how much money you earn. Even his mother and wife are not with anyone. This will increase your costs; they will think you deserve more than that.
So every man should tell people less than what he earns. Because not everyone is intelligent, it is easy to make money, but it isn’t easy to hold on. You can never fill anyone’s mind, so don’t tell anyone the amount of money you have earned. There is no gain but loss.
3.
Do not tell anyone any secret, before revealing any secret information, think about the consequences. Although she is the wife of the house, she does not have much to say. Because today’s wife may not be there tomorrow, then there is a possibility that she will lose herself by disclosing this information.
Again, it is foolish to tell a friend what you think is your secret or any other weakness. Friendships that exist today may be ruined tomorrow.
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Then that friend can also become an enemy and reveal your secret information.
So think about who can say what. Profit or loss. What if the relationship doesn’t exist in the future? The wise men make these decisions.
4.
Before starting any work, do not discuss that work with anyone. If you need any advice, you can take the help of elders. But I will do this; I will do this business, don’t give dialogue everywhere. In this, their plan is exposed, the hypocrites take that opportunity.
Also, if for some reason you can’t do that job or business! Then everyone will make fun of you, criticize you as a failure. Only those who keep their plans secret succeed.
5.
Will donate but will not lend money to anyone without checking. Poor people have a right to your wealth, so help them as much as you can.
Remember, those who want to borrow money have honey mixed in their words.
They want to borrow money by throwing sweet words. But once the payment is borrowed, he does not want to repay it.
Giving money increases wealth while lending money destroys relationships. However, there are exceptions in some cases, so if someone wants to borrow, check whether he is suitable to borrow money. Then there will be no doubt, and there will be no call in the future.
Conclusion:-
The above words I have observed many times in real life. Dad may have faced such issues and then gained such knowledge. And in the light of his experience, he would go with regular suggestions. Every father’s advice for the child is to find a new path.
