Valerie Shaffer·Jun 15What Reggaeton-House Music Means For Your SummerWhy your summer is about to bump harder than ever. And, yes, I’m baiting you with the old Bad Bunny pic.
Valerie Shaffer·May 23My Silly Thoughts on Hypocrisy, Sex, & Being Christian in a Past LifeMy choice to leave; their choice to stay. Slut-shaming from an early age and who’s actually Christian.
InMmm Mondays — Life MattersbyValerie Shaffer·May 14On writing, narcissism, and being gayExplore yourself along with Susan Sontag and my unsolicited commentary.
Valerie Shaffer·May 11The death of relationships according to me & Susan SontagThe heartbreaking inevitability of love dried up and feelings no longer felt.A response icon1A response icon1
Valerie Shaffer·Apr 21Nervous After Sending a Risky Text? Knit a SweaterDating problems require crafty solutions.
Valerie Shaffer·Apr 19Stop trying to make me go camping!There’s nothing wrong with me, I just don’t like camping. Or skiing, while we’re on the subject.
Valerie Shaffer·Apr 1714 (Dumb) Reasons I Swipe LeftI have a lot to say about modern dating, but this one is all fun and games. Kind of.
Valerie Shaffer·Apr 16Why I GhostGhosting gets a bad rap, but sometimes it’s the best way to end things.
Valerie Shaffer·Apr 15On Washing Dishes, Patriarchy, & BoyfriendsNo matter how hard I try, how independent I am, was I always destined to be a wife?
